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Tuesday, May 25, 2010

What do you do when you have great stuff to share and nobody will give you a bitme.org invite?

I really don't get how websites like bitme.org so easily refuse members that could greatly contribute to their trackers. If you were able to get a bitme invite/membership, you know how to get ahold of me. Please do so I can contribute.
What do you do when you have great stuff to share and nobody will give you a bitme.org invite?
Find a site that doesn't refuse members that could contribute to their trackers. I'm sorry I don't have an invite.
Reply:This really is NOT an ETIQUETTE question. IF you DELETE this and resubmit it, and choose the BROWSE CATEGORIES and pick a more appropriate one... like: Computers %26amp; Internet. You'll find more and better answers there, too.








Have a polite day.

Is it acceptable to list the childs needs in a birthday invite?

This is for my my daughters first birthday and the invites are going to family and very close friends. I didn't make a a list for my sons first b-day and everyone was calling us asking what he needed. Is it acceptable to just save everyone time to add her clothes a shoe size and that she would like age appropriate toys?
Is it acceptable to list the childs needs in a birthday invite?
I think you should send around a general e-mail with her sizes and state that it's because you've been asked. Please don't put it on the invitation. Even though it's family and friends, that's just not great etiquette. The focus on any child's birthday party should be attendance of the guests, not the gifts. I realize you have a good reason but as I said...send it in an informal e-mail if you start getting phone calls.





Otherwise, gifts are just that, gifts; not something necessarily expected, and appreciated whether they're perfect or not.





Happy birthday to your little girl!
Reply:That sounds a little pushy. I personally wouldnt do it cause I would slightly be uncomfortable if I received an invite with a list. But it really depends on you and your friends. If you want I would make a list on a separate piece of paper titled possible gift suggestions and mail it with the invite and maybe put a disclaimer at the bottom stating that the list is purely just suggestions to aid in the gift purchasing process. Problem then is you risk getting 20 of the same thing. If you just have people call you then you can tell each one to get you something different but if you mail them all the same list you dont know who's going to get what!
Reply:Yes, I would say it is acceptable to just include clothing and shoe size if it is really going to be a nuisance to you to have people calling you asking you. I personally never like to give the impression that I am expecting gifts but that is just personal preference e.g. not including a bridal registry in a wedding invitation. I think most people will make the assumption that age-appropriate toys would be on the list. Just writing her sizes in the corner would be fine. That way people can reference it should they choose to purchase something for the celebration of her first year.





Have a great party!
Reply:don't, it would look rude on paper. If it REALLY bothers you that much, a solution would be for you to register somewhere so people could just have a choice of stuff to pick out...





Otherwise, just feel glad people in your family are considerate enough to call ahead to make sure the gift will be something your daughter will be able to enjoy, rather than just getting a gift card to some store you all hate or something that doesnt even fit.
Reply:In all honesty, I am offended when someone puts gift ideas in an invite. I think it is rude and presumptuous. Birthdays are not supposed to be all about presents. Do you mail out wish lists in your Christmas Cards, too? If you don't have the time to answer the phone calls and emails about what to get your child for his or birthday, then the people you are inviting must not be that "close" afterall. If they were around enough, they would know what your child enjoys.
Reply:Although it maybe an intelligent choice I'm afraid it maybe misunderstood by some as being a way for you to obtain items your child needs through their birthday. Its just a choice that if you give these answers you should do it in person, and not on paper. I'm sure the party will be awesome, with allot of beautiful and practical gifts that your child will one day thank you for doing or not doing.
Reply:I would say no, but you might include a message that says "For gift questions call (phone number)" or something along those lines. or "Please include receipt with clothing" I'm sure ppl will understand that. When it comes to toys, you're going to have to just accept them and hope you can return any undesired ones at the store. If she doesn't play with them now, she will in the future. Some people just have no idea what to buy a young child =]
Reply:No. It's presumptive. You don't want to be bothered with requests? Is that it? That is how it could be perceived.





I'm with you. I prefer to address everything ahead of time but I realize that it's not always appropriate or appreciated. It's better to follow society. Wait for the calls asking questions.
Reply:It is normally considered rude and inappropriate to list birthday present information on the invitation. People are supposed to take the time to call and you are supposed to take the time to answer.
Reply:that would save a lot of problems but it sounds like you need to bring a gift and there no choice try wording it diffrently like if you want to buy them clother she is _______ size.
Reply:Yes, I have received invitations that directed me to the store with the most competitive cost, something for which I was thankful.
Reply:No it is never acceptable to list gift requests/needs, registry info, etc. If they call and ask you can tell them but you should never list gifts.
Reply:I dont think its acceptable at all. I kinda think its a little rude to think that your expecting them to bring a gift. If some people call asking for this info then sure let them know but dont just add this inside the invites.
Reply:Big No. That sends the message that you expect them to buy those things. Its better to just let them call you. Annoying yes, but it is much more polite.
Reply:clothes and shoe size is perfectly ok. :) age appropriate toys is a given, I think.
Reply:It makes it seem like you [expect] a gift from them. Giving a gift or what gift should be given, should be an option.
Reply:I don't think so but if you are comfortable stating a short (mid-priced) list than have at it.
Reply:Actually I think it could go either way based on your relationship with the invited guests. If you choose to tell them what you want, I would be careful not to word it so that it looks like you are EXPECTING gifts. The party is about celebration of life, not tonka toys. Because of the thin line between expecting gifts and informing guest (keep in mind some already know what to do in the situation so why send it to all?) I would say it is best to say away from listing stats.





We have great quick ways to communicate now days there is no reason to try to beat them to the punch. Just let them ask you then try this:





When my daughter turned a year old we made a birthday registry for her at Target. We put no more than 5 moderately priced things on there and kept it open until her birthday. We DID NOT send out notice of the registry in the invite. If someone asked what she would like we would rattle off the usual play clothes, books and offered for them to look at her birthday registry (once again depends on the relationship with the guest-ours were family and God parents only).


This could work for you.
Reply:that would be helpful to everyone. also say something like, "to avoid the many calls i got last time regarding items (your son's name) needed, i'm listing some of the things (daughter's name) needs"
Reply:I wish people would do that.. It would save my wife and I a lot of headaches trying to find out what someone needs. I don't think it is tacky at all.. It saves a phone call and much time! Besides.. we hate giving the gift cards...





And to those who think it is tacky.. You must think Wedding and Shower registries are horribly offensive...
Reply:Yes! I think people would be glad to have some idea of what to get her. It's always a pain having to buy clothes that are somewhat large because then the child will hopefully be smaller and grow into them rather than knowing the size to buy for.
Reply:I may seem a bit forward so you should probably put something like :





If you are thinking of getting clothes/shoes, these are _____'s sizes.





Or something similar. Just try to make it like a subtle hint of sorts !
Reply:I don't see anything wrong with adding a wish list.

Is it practically impossible for me to get a fashion spot invite?

i am just a 15 y/o admirer of all things fashion and an aspiring editor or just contributor for a fashion magazine.


i have no ties to the fashion community (obviously, being 15) and no one seems to want to invite an average person


likelihood?
Is it practically impossible for me to get a fashion spot invite?
Unfortunately, it is highly unlikely that you will get to this position. But you could try taking designing classes and apply for an internship (when you are of age) to some fashion magazine. The more you strive for your dreams, the more likely you will succeed.





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When someone is going out to breakfast and they fail to invite you?

Would you block them or just show up?
When someone is going out to breakfast and they fail to invite you?
I would just stay home and make breakfast for myself I don't care if people go out and don't invite me im not just gonna show up somewhere uninvited
Reply:i dont know it depends i use to have people do that to me all the time then i started to not talk to them anymore
Reply:This is one of those eenie meenie minie moe kinda multiple choice things... Maybe I would just show up, then when I get home, block them so they can't b*tch at me later...
Reply:use a poison-tipped sword during a fight with them, and have a poisoned drink at the ready just in case
Reply:Show up and scootch in between them then lick their forks.
Reply:I assume they are uninviting me and so I show up anyway just to piss them off!
Reply:Probably doing nothing I wouldn't care much
Reply:I'd just eat my usual mountain dew and cheddar cheese combos.
Reply:neither , just pretend I didn't notice
Reply:Um I just wouldnt invite them when I went out
Reply:I'd show up just to piss them off!





Would you look at that...Slick G and I have the same diet!
Reply:Non because they know I'd rather have my breakfast alone.
Reply:I'd show up at slicks for some Mountain Dew.
Reply:both... that will teach them.
Reply:Show up....then pretend I lost my wallet.....

Both of my girls are having a b-day party together. What is the right amount of people to invite?

They are to be 5 and 7 and they want to have a B-day party at the ice skating rink. I'm worried that if I invite all the girls from their class it will be to many. But if I don't invite them then the others will get upset. What do I do? It would be 20 total.
Both of my girls are having a b-day party together. What is the right amount of people to invite?
My parents麓 rule of thumb was: you can invite as many guests as your age. With your girls, that would be 5 plus 7, i.e. 12 girls altogether. And that, mind you, is already quite a bunch of little ones to watch out for. If just one of them slips on the ice and gets a nosebleed, who is going to keep an eye on the other 11?





I suggest you definitely take another adult along, or in case you decide to really invite all 20 girls, take two(!) more. Maybe one of the invitee麓s mums has an afternoon off?





20 girls for a 5- respectively 7 year-old麓s birthday party really is a lot. If you don麓t want to exclude one, ever thought about splitting it rather, and have two 10-girls-invited parties? :)
Reply:First of all that's very cute. Second of all, sit the girls down and ask them who they most would want at the party. Explain to them that all of their friends may not be able to come and to pick a number of kids they really want to show up. Like their closest friends. That will make it easier on you. The kids will do the work for you, LOL. You can probably scoot this around the 5 year old and do the picking for her. It's that 7 year old you're gonna have to bargain with, LOL.
Reply:Wow, what a thoughtful person you are. If it were me, I'd just invite all of them, it sucks to be left out of the group, been there done that. Good luck and Double Happy Birthdays to your kiddies:)
Reply:have seperate parties but at different times.
Reply:Would be better to have separate parties then.
Reply:20 is not too many.
Reply:just invite their friends, there's no need to invite an entire class

Do you think the obvious weakness and inexperience of Obama will invite an attack on the U S A?

I mean how stupid does it get. wanting to sit down with the Iranians?


That's like sitting down to negotiate with Adolph Hitler?
Do you think the obvious weakness and inexperience of Obama will invite an attack on the U S A?
They're already attacking our ships on the high seas


Way to go Obama


I wonder if the YA nazi censors will eliminate this ?
Reply:ask again on 9/11/2009





Wanting to sit down and resolve issues is the only option short of endless war.


Sitting down and resolving issues is the next logical step after showing someone you aren't going to be put up with the current form of treatment.


You sit down and resolve issues or you resolve the question of whether or not to keep fighting.


There are only two options:


1) resolve issues


2) genocide





Are you really as stupid as you sound?
Reply:No, but thanks for asking.





There is a practice called "diplomacy." You can google it. It has been held in high esteem since the beginning of civilization, and it has worked quite well. Perhaps you aren't old enough to remember before the last eight years, but we and other countries have used it, along with certain pressures and threats, when it is called "the carrot and the stick." As I said, google it and learn some new ideas.
Reply:Absolutely.





In fact, the Prophet Biden already predicted that there would be an attack when he said that Obama will be tested in 6 months.





Look out! We're already 3 months into his term and it looks like we have 3 months left to go before the Prophet's prediction comes true.





If you remember his preface, I believe it was "mark my words".
Reply:Your ignorance shows with every word out of your little mind. He has already reversed many of the disastrous diplomacy failures left to him by the goofball joke Bush. THINK before typing nonsense like negotiating with Hitler, just makes you look bitter and uninformed.
Reply:You are so right!!





It reminds me of Chamberlain, when he went %26amp; visited with Hitler to make sure that Hitler would not make war with Great Britain.





That worked out well didn't it.





Lets try %26amp; make nice with terrorists so they won't try to Nuke us %26amp; cut off all of our heads......................Please.
Reply:He sat down to negotiate with the Republicans. Compared to them, the Iranians are moderates.
Reply:Only if the international bankers running the show think it's necessary. These decisions are made by transnational elite. Look it up.
Reply:Weakness???? Like the moron who was asleep at the switch the last year didn't show weakness?





Bush had diplomats sit down with the Iranians and North Koreans....whats wrong with diplomacy?????
Reply:Believing in the lessons of history is not something liberals are equipped to do, let alone actually learning history.
Reply:Oh, you mean like how Bush's obvious weakness and inexperience invited 9/11?
Reply:Keep your friend close and your enemies closer.
Reply:Why don't you wait and see what happens over the next few years.





Then maybe you'll actually learn something.
Reply:Adolf
Reply:Yes. Star for you.
Reply:I don't think it matters. We were attacked under a much more experienced George W. Bush(2001) and Bill Clinton(1993).
Reply:its not as stupid as the question you just asked!
Reply:maybe, doubt it, who knows...
Reply:I am sure as we speak they are plotting something. I have a feeling it is going to be 100 times worse then 9/11!
Reply:yea we will get attacked obama doesnt know anything thats y i voted for mccain

Picasa2: How can I invite my friends to view my album?

I have uploaded my pictures on Picasa2, Googles鈥?photo sharing program. Now how can I invite my friends to view my album?
Picasa2: How can I invite my friends to view my album?
somewhat towards the top, there is a button 'Share Album' with an envelope.


click that.


the next screen is where you will enter in ur friends addy's
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How soon do you invite people in to see tha baby after giving birth?

That's completely up to you (and the baby's daddy if he's there). I had my and hubby's family with me during labor, but not during delivery. But right after delivery we let them back in. Also, you may want to check with your ob...some have different rules.
How soon do you invite people in to see tha baby after giving birth?
It depends on how mom and baby are doing. If all went well and Mom is up to visitors you can have people come right away. The hospital doesn't usually restrict visitors unless there is a problem.
Reply:A long time you don;t want others coming in contact with the baby too soon because it could make them sick. There immune system isn't as strong as ours so a little cough could harm a baby. But if you insist try to keep sick people from touching the baby. also have everyone wash there hands in warm water for a least a minute before they touch the baby. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:it depends on you when do YOU want people over it's your choice. Unless the baby is sick or you don't feel well then dont have people over. It depends on you what do YOU want?
Reply:I think it all depends on how comfortable you are. I was a bit of a germ-a-phob. So I only had a couple (couple being 2-3) visitors at a time. I also didn't like people holding my baby and standing, walking, anything but sitting. But I know other people who are just fine having the whole family come over at the same time.

Should college students be allowed to invite their friends to spend night in their dorm?

the topic is for debate and i'm on the Affirmative side,so i need some positive evidence supports argument points.could you please give me some helps? do you agree or disagree? why or why not?


if the answers are good, i will give more score to you锛宼hanks!
Should college students be allowed to invite their friends to spend night in their dorm?
If they are in college, they are old enough that they should be able to have anyone they want spend the night! Why do people still get treated like children once they are no longer legally minors? That is just silly. By the way, I'm 21, "college age"and I have my own apartment am "allowed" to let whoever I want stay over.
Reply:I think they should. College is the time you are supposed to be becoming and adult and coming into your own and making your own decision. You have to learn to not only be smart about who you are letting stay in your living space, but also about courtesy and working things out with roommates / dormmates.





I also do not think there should be a guideline on the sex of the guest, as that is another decision that you need to learn to make for yourself. And again it comes down to courtesy for your roommate as to how they feel about having a strange man / woman that they do not know in their room.





The college I went to did not allow overnight guests, but the R.D. and the R.A.'s did, as long as we were responsible about it. And out of the 146 people that live on campus, there was only ever one incident of a fight or guests getting out of control the year I was there.
Reply:Yes. If they are the same sex.
Reply:idk i am not in collage yet

In orkut how to invite frnds to join community?

I want to send invitation to people to join my community other than my frnds . how?
In orkut how to invite frnds to join community?
when you open your community,





you will find in right hand side of page,








an option with invite friends,





click on that,





%26amp; then you can invite all the people ,





who are on your orkut profile,





but you can't invite any other else,





you can send e-mail to other persons to invite,





thank you,


have a nice life,
Reply:In your home page extreme left corner with an option "Invite friends" in that just type your friends mail id and send an invitation, If you want invite more unknown friends from all over world just go to their profile page and in the left hand side an option "Add as a friend" just click that option, if he accepts your profile then you are his friend.
Reply:Invite your friend by email from your account.

If I send out engagment announcements do I have to invite them all to the wedding?

I want to send out engagment announcements becuase we will not be doing planning anytime soon. We also have relatives out of state that I would like to notify. The announcement will also let everyone know that a date has not been set. So do I have to invite everyone that I send an announcement to or no??
If I send out engagment announcements do I have to invite them all to the wedding?
If you were having an engagement party I could see sending announcements with the invite...how about puttting an announcement in the newspaper and then call or send personal announcements to your relatives out of state you would probably be inviting anyway.


Would save you a lot of work, time and money.
Reply:YES!
Reply:I know you want to shout the news from the rooftops but engagement announcements aren't really necessary these days. Have a party!





If you decide to send out the engagement announcements, the people who receive them will probably expect a wedding invitation too.
Reply:i would not send an engagement announcement to anyone i was not planning on inviting to the wedding. if it is distant relatives or people far away (like your great-great-aunt or a third cousin who lives across the country), you can always send a marriage announcement after the wedding just to let them know you tied the knot.
Reply:if I got an engagement announcement I would assume I would be invited to the wedding. why else would you send them out? if I got one and wasnt invited to the wedding I would think the couple is just looking for an engagement gift or something. I dont like the idea of an announcement anyways. good for you...your got engaged. if I'm close enough to you to care then you could pick up the phone and call me yourself.
Reply:Yes. Sending them an announcement and then not inviting them eventually would be rude.
Reply:I sent out announcements to many people, but my wedding only included 50 of them. They seemed to be fine with it. We did however had a huge picnic style reception, where we invited everyone.
Reply:People who get announcements will expect a invite regardless of whether the date was set.
Reply:no.
Reply:If you're sending out an announcement that you're engaged, and also mentioning that no date has been set, it is safe to say the people receiving this announcement would assume they were going to be invited to the wedding.
Reply:no i would send out a marriage announcement. You can inform ppl that you are married, but not invite them. There are a lot of ppl that you may just want to know but dont really want them or need them to be at the wedding.
Reply:no do wat u will an announcement is saying yea i'm getting married but an invit says i want u to be there
Reply:My in-laws insisted on doing that since I refused to invite all 200 people in their family that I've never even met, let alone my husband didn't know half of them. They weren't invited to the wedding, it was just a way of say, "hey we got engaged". After the wedding they all recieved a "hey we got married" type of dea saying it was a small private ceremony blah blah blah. That way they weren't left out of the loop.
Reply:No. Engagement announcements aren't usually sent out anymore. You can if you want to but you aren't obligated to invite everyone to the wedding that you let know about your engagement. Although be prepared that they will expect to be invited and may want to know why they weren't.
Reply:yes...although you didn't send a save-the-date...people will be expecting to be invited to the wedding when it happens.
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Do we have to invite the minister to our reception?

We are having a tiny wedding with 14 guests. Our preacher will be marrying us and he does not charge a fee for it, but we don't really know him. We like listening to him at church on Sunday but we have only spoken to him like twice. Since there are so few guests I am afraid he will feel out of place, but the reception is right there where the wedding is and I don't want him to feel sad if we didn't invite him. Also, the area where we are having the reception only seats 14 people so we would have to kick someone else out if we invite him.
Do we have to invite the minister to our reception?
Yes. you should definitely invite him, especially since he is not receiving any fee for performing your wedding. You should even invite his wife, if he is married. And don't hint around that you'd really like him to decline. You will probably become better acquainted with him if you continue to attend the same church, so start off on the right foot!





If possible, rearrange the seating to accommodate one or two more people, or move your reception to a slightly larger place.
Reply:inform him of your exact situation. you would have loved to invite him, but you feel he wont enjoy it besides the seating issue. if he is good as he should be he will surely understand.
Reply:There is no rule that say you have to invite the minister to the reception. It's a nice gesture, but you're already somewhat cramped for space.
Reply:It would be rude to just leave the situation alone. Personally, I would invite him. There is a good chance that he will decline. Otherwise, just explain your situation to him.
Reply:Yes, invite him. Uninviting him would be very rude, and not addressing the matter isn't much better. Extend an invitation to him and make the seating work.
Reply:say oh well we would invite you to stay, but the reception only holds so many, plus if he doesn't know you real well i'm pretty sure he won't be hurt by it.

Is it acceptable to invite men to baby showers?

Is it proper these days to invite men to a baby shower? If so what kind of things should we do, as I know men would'nt want to hear baby stories. Game ideas? Thanks
Is it acceptable to invite men to baby showers?
As long as you let all the guests know it's co-ed ahead of time, so they can feel free to bring their significant others, it's fine. I wouldn't want to invite particular men and exclude others, just in case it causes hurt feelings on the part of their girlfriends/wives that they weren't invited.





Our friends had a coed shower at a park, and they had a baby-bottle drinking contest for the boys...whichever could chug soda through a baby bottle the quickest won a gift. There was also a basketball court and a field for the guys to play football in, so they didn't have to sit through some of the more girly parts.
Reply:yea its called a "jack and jill" shower. my boyfriend's cousin had one and my best friend had one.
Reply:We had a co-ed baby shower and it was fun! We grilled some food and had things like little smokies, cheese and crackers, and of course baby cake!





Everyone had fun playing a game where we passed around string and had people cut the length that they thought was my "Belly Circumference". The guys had fun doing it and of course joking about if they were wrong, I'm not gonna hurt them right? It was a fun time and it was more important for me that everyone just had fun and was able to get together.
Reply:I have had friend that have had a man baby shower, the guys come to the house to BBQ and watch sports and when they come they ask to bring a pack of diapers.





Or yeah you could invite them come to a traditional shower maybe have a TV room set up for them while you do the traditional shower things.
Reply:Every baby shower that I have been to with men, they have always just sat there and did nothing. They didnt participate at all. Sorry. I wish I did know some games.
Reply:Yeah some showers have men too nowadays. Just don't have it all pink and baby blue with silly cutsy games only. Ask a guy what he'd like to do for games.





Set time aside for serious discussions, have experienced moms and dads give advice and prayers/well wishes for the expectant couple.
Reply:My shower is this saturday and I know for a fact that there will be men there. My mom invited her brothers. My dad will be there and the father of the baby will be there. I dont see a problem with having men at a baby shower.
Reply:Sure, just make it a "co-ed" shower or call it a "baby celebration/party" instead.





Have a barbecue. Do what you would do at a regular birthday party.





Men usually don't dig games, btw.
Reply:I GUESS BUT YOU WOULDN'T CATCH ME AT ONE, ANY GUY WOULD BE BORED OUT OF THEIR MIND. SAVE THEM THE TROUBLE OF HAVING TO COME UP WITH AN EXCUSE TO GET OUT OF GOING.
Reply:when i had my shower my husband was there and some of his guy friends was there to just for the fun of it. they all participate in every game that we had. it was mostly women games and they enjoyed it, just being around tons of women's. get some cotton balls and put them in a bowl and have everyone write down how many they think is in the bowl. (make sure you squish then all together) get a jar, get some recess cups, have them all guess how many in the jar.
Reply:All of the ones I've been to have men.





They just sit outside and drink while the ladies play games inside....





I think i would want my baby's father at my baby shower

Why does msn go offline every time i send an invite for webcam?

I sent an invite on msn to view webcam to one of my friends and it just freezes msn and shuts the whole this down and takes me offline! I have reinstalled msn and the webcam cd and nothing works. What can i do? Please help x
Why does msn go offline every time i send an invite for webcam?
um there is many other webcam sites like camfrog.com or oovoo.com or MORES u can invite your friends on aim better than nothing while don't use YAHOO lousy webcam server so














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True blood viewers, how many times to you have to invite the vampire in?

In the first or second episode Bill the vampire said he had to be invited into the house, just once forever? Your boy the vampire comes and goes as he pleases from sookies house, any comments?
True blood viewers, how many times to you have to invite the vampire in?
I believe they implied the invitation can last as long as the inviter wants, and that it can be revoked.





In most mythologies, the vampire just has to be invited in once and can come and go as he or she pleases, which is how it works in Trueblood.However, while in the mainstream myths, once you invite them in, the invitation can't be taken back, but in Trueblood, I believe it can be.
Reply:True Blood is based on the Southern Vampire Book series Of Sookie Stackhouse written by Charlaine Harris....I've read the entire series...in the books Bill, and other vamps are invited in AND revoked. When they are revoked they walk out backwards.


Also the invitation is good, untill a revoke is given. Then they need to be invited in again.
Reply:Let me tell you something. Forget all those stupid fake fantasy vampires. The Real Deal is nothing like this namby pamby Bill and Co. You do not want to invite a vampire in, if you do there won't be anything romantic about it.
Reply:once invited all ways invited
Reply:In the show you can take back the invitation. At least that's what Bill's character says. Comes on in about an hour here. Can't wait!
Reply:The invitation is forever and can't be revoked.
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How does a user invite themselves onto my friends list. Previous contact with them was through spam mail.?

I received some spam mail some weeks ago and now the same user, from mac.com, has now invited themselves onto my friends list. What can be done to stop this kind of worrying intrusion.
How does a user invite themselves onto my friends list. Previous contact with them was through spam mail.?
every mail have a unsubscribe option you may try to unsubscribe to these types of mails.

How do I invite people on wifi while playing pokemon diamond?

how long does it take for them to accept the invite?
How do I invite people on wifi while playing pokemon diamond?
idk but i've been wonderin the same thing


I'm on now so send me an invite and we can figure it out


my friend code is 3007 9581 0359


my names chris





oh and to invite people go to the basement of the pokemon center and it'll ask you who you want to invite.


if you don't mind invite me just so i can see how long it takes.


or if you want to trade
Reply:WTF Pokemon seriously?
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How do you know when somebody rejects your friend invite on Facebook?

Facebook won't let you know if someone rejects you- as in they won't send you an email to notify you. The only way to tell is to search for the person again or view their profile. If it says something like "Add as friend" then you know they denied your request because if they hadn't responded to it yet, it would say something along the lines of "There is a pending friend request".





Other than that, try contacting the person directly via AIM, email, phone, message.
How do you know when somebody rejects your friend invite on Facebook?
Honestly, the best way to know is to ask them. Send them a message or talk to them in person, another way is to look and see if anyone else has exchanged a message with them/written on wall, after you sent the friend request.

How do you invite your friends over on Webkinz?

How do you invite your friends over to you room on webkinz because my best friend and I have been trying to figure out how to go to each others houses but we can never figure it out!
How do you invite your friends over on Webkinz?
press your cell phone in the corner turn it on click your frineds name (needs to be added) and select invite.

How do I invite my friend on msn to view my webcam on yahoo messenger?

He started the conversation, and I've managed to turn my cam on but I can't seem to find the option to invite him to view.
How do I invite my friend on msn to view my webcam on yahoo messenger?
You can't.





Both instant messengers need to be the same. However there is a programme called trillian that allows you to use multiple IM's at the same time.
Reply:Um if u have a yahoo account and you want to show ur webcam to a msn account. I found a way to do that. Just download the Zune Player for a zune mp3. Then register with ur yahoo account on zune. I know 100% you can log in to a Live messenger using ur yahoo account. it works since that's wat I did. Report Abuse

Reply:They have to ask if they can view your webbi


the only way YOU can invite is by sending them a msg
Reply:I'm guessing they would have to have YIM aswell.

How can i invite another online friend to join the conference with one friend?

Is it possible to have conference chat?
How can i invite another online friend to join the conference with one friend?
actions / invite to conference





and when the window opens, you just look for that other person's name on that list and add it to the Conference list..
Reply:At the top of the Messenger window click on "Actions", at the





bottom of the drop down menu click on "Invite to Conference"





That will open your friends list in another window, just click





on the persons you want and hit ADD. Their names will go to the





list on the right side then.


When your done adding just click on the "Invite"button and they





will only have to accept the invite to join you in your own





conference room. Oh and be sure to check the box "Enable Voice





for this Conference" if you wish to speak to them on the mic.








You can also start a conference with some one from your IM





window by just clicking on the Conference button and following





the same directions as above.





Once you are in the Conference room you can add more people





from there, just click on Conference and repeat the add friend





process.








hope this helps
Reply:Yes
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My co-workers already gave me a bridal shower gift at a staff meeting, how do I invite them to my shower?

At a recent staff meeting, my co-workers gave me a very generous gift. However, I would like their company at the shower my bridesmaids are hosting in few weeks. How do I let my co-workers know it's their presence at my shower that I want, not their "presents"?
My co-workers already gave me a bridal shower gift at a staff meeting, how do I invite them to my shower?
Just tell them. Give them the invite and say....





We are having a luncheon on Saturday for my bridal shower, I would love it if you attend and please do not bring a gift, you guys have already done so much for me. Thanks and I hope to see you there.
Reply:I don't see a way to do this. The central idea of a shower is a gathering of acquaintances who wish to shower the bride wtih gifts. I suggest you repay your social debt to your coworkers in a way that doesn't mix your personal and your business life, such as bringing some special food treat for the staff, writing everyone a thank you with some small gift enclosed, or inviting everyone for an after work pizza party. The whole idea of a shower is that a group of people who are eager to help the bride get started in married in life gather to shower her with gifts, with one or more attendees winning a door prize. You can't combine the two, you need two seperate happenings.
Reply:If you invite someone to your shower, they are expected to bring a gift. It doesn't matter that they've given you a gift at another event: that gift doesn't cover the second event. It would make it very awkward for them to be invited to a shower (the sole purpose of which is to give gifts) and be asked not to bring a gift. Leave it as the shower they gave you is the shower they attended and don't embarrass them by putting them in the awkward situation of a second shower: they will either feel like they must bring a gift, or feel strange that they didn't. The fact that they threw you a shower suggests that they don't expect to be invited to the friend and family one.
Reply:exactly what kicks n giggles said.


"We're having a party in a few weeks, I'd love for you all to come, and please don't feel as if you need to bring anything, you've all been so wonderful to me already!"





Basically


1) invite them. let them know details, etc.


2) tell them not to bring anything, that it isn't needed


3) thank them again for the generosity and kindness they have showed you


4) tell them it should be a good time and you hope they can make it!





you sound very genuine, so I'm sure they will not think "presents" when what you really want is their "presence"
Reply:Let them know how much you would like them to attend and that you are aware that they have already been so gracious with a more than generous gift.





Then let them know there is no expectation for them to bring gifts. Some of them might still decide to bring a gift anyway, but at least they know before hand that it is not something that you are looking for from them.
Reply:Write a nice note stating a thank you for their generous gift and you would really like their presence at the shower in which your bridesmaids are giving you. (No further gift please just your presence is a gift within itself)
Reply:Give them a "thank you" card for the gift, and in the card include an invitation to the shower..just write on the invitation "no gifts, please" or something to that effect
Reply:give best answer to the first poster! she said it perfectly~happy wedding!

How do you invite a few friends to join a bday celeb for a mutual friend without being expected to pay for all

It is a surprise get together for the friend turning 50. We can pay for her and our family, but don't want to stuck with the whole tab for everyone. What is the proper way to invite others without offending by saying "by the way, your bill is your responsibility". Just not sure how to state it when inviting. I feel most would not expect theirs to be paid, but you never know. Thanks for any advice.
How do you invite a few friends to join a bday celeb for a mutual friend without being expected to pay for all
Instead of saying 'we are having a birthday party' ask if they would be interested in all going out to celebrate. Asking their interest will hopeful imply that their would be some inconvenience (such as cost) to them. Also you can make it more clear by saying "does anyone have any suggestions of where we should go or what price range they want to stay within". Or simply say 'If you are interesting in going out, I am willing to pay for *mutual friend*". I think that without formally saying that you are the 'host of the party' most people would not be expecting you to pay.
Reply:I would never expect someone to pay for me if I was invited to a restaurant for a big celebration. If they did it's a bonus but I'm always prepared. I think it would be rude of them to expect you to pay for so many people. I mean it's not a banquet.
Reply:That's B - - - - - - - !


You invite, YOU PAY
Reply:Let's take X out for her birthday. I know her favorite restaurant is BBBB so let's take her there.
Reply:I had a similar experience recently where we were invited to a rather nice restaurant for a surprise party for a mutual friend.


I certainly would not have stuck the person who invited us for our part of the bill, but with other people you never know. Anyway, at the end of the night the host asked for contributions for the dinner and passed the hat. Later I asked the host if he had enough for the bill and he nodded yes.


When you extend the invitation you could also mention that the dinner is "no host," which implies that everyone is responsible for their own bill.
Reply:I have these kind of "parties" all the time.


I never ask them to come to a party I always ask them to join us a "such and such" restuarant to celebrate .........."


I have never had a problem with anyone expecting to have their meal paid for.


Good luck
Reply:Hmm... are you close to the people? If so, I would call them and say something like " I was hoping we could all get together for ___'s birthday " What do you think of everyone meeting up at -------? Of course, you might loose a little control in the planning process (example, someone might say "oh let's go here instead of there") But it would be more clear than saying "we are having a party for ____ at ----- and you are invited" which does seem to imply that you might be paying.
Reply:If you ask people to "meet at restraunt X at 6:00 on Friday" that sounds more mutual than "party for so-and-so".
Reply:On the invitation write that is a "no-host" dinner or lunch and to have them rsvpso you can make a proper reservation.

How do you invite friend to vizwoz?

I dont know how it doesnt give me money!
How do you invite friend to vizwoz?
ok, go to friends, hit search, enter there email, hit search, hit yes, hit ok.

How do I invite someone to view my cam on yahoo messenger?

I have a mac so its a little different. Thanks!
How do I invite someone to view my cam on yahoo messenger?
If you have the newest version of yahoo messenger, at the top of the conversation window, there is a button that says Webcam, click it, then click ok.
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How do i invite someone to the usa from palestine territory?

i want to invite my frined to the usahow do i go about doing that?
How do i invite someone to the usa from palestine territory?
You are certainly welcome to write a letter of invitation to your friend. Your friend may then include your letter of invitation with his/her non immigrant visa application. However, it is still up to your friend to qualify for the visa on his/her own merits, and to overcome the presumption of being an intending immigrant.
Reply:Send a letter of invitation to your friend and present it to the US embassy for applying a US visa together with other documents.
Reply:You just invite them with a formal letter.. it is up to them to apply for a visitor's visa.
Reply:Palestine.





I have no experience on this, but I do know there are things called no fly lists and if your friend is from palestine...

How do i invite people to join fantasy baseball?

i know someone who wants to join my league and i need to know how to send an invite to him
How do i invite people to join fantasy baseball?
If you're the commish, go to the league home page then below the list of teams there should be something that says "Invite your friends" then you can enter their email address and there's a place for text and you can put your league ID and password there and that's that. Or just call him and tell him the info.
Reply:email him

Did Hamas deliberately invite and desire military action by their many missile attacks on Israeli civilians?

No government can stand idly by while its civilian population are being targetted by constant missile attacks, so it was virtually inevitable that Israel would have to respond with military action. Is this what Hamas wanted? Were these rocket attacks on Israel deliberate provocation in the certain knowledge of what the consequences would be?
Did Hamas deliberately invite and desire military action by their many missile attacks on Israeli civilians?
"HAM-A**" AND "HISBULL-S***" KEEP SAYING WE KILL ONLY A FEW ISRAELIS, THEY KILL MANY OF US!


DOES THAT MAKE SENSE???


STOP FIRING ROCKETS AND BLOWING THEMSELVES UP IN THE AIR, THEN THEY CAN TALK PEACE!
Reply:You know what I don't understand...





1) After 6 decades, have the Palestinian's not learned that they can not defeat Israel with military means?





Do they not understand that Hamas will bring more destruction and death into Palestine?





Have they not thought of the idea of Ghandi-like passive resistance as a better option, because if Israel continues to oppress Palestinians while Palestinians are peacefully protesting and holding protests, it would have a much bigger impact on the international community. The world would not let Israel get away with what its doing while Palestine is doing nothing back.





But now, the oppression of the Palestinian people is semi-silenced because of how Israel justifies itself as defense from Hamas.





2) Why are Muslims on this board not protesting against Saudi Arabia, who one of the richest countries in the middle east should be helping Palestine build schools, hospitals. Instead of investing money into dubai, why isn't Saudi Arabia investing money into Palestine to ressurect their economy and get people to work so they can support their families and that they wont have to be dependent on Israel for food, water, electricity, and medical supplies





Why are Muslims on this board not protesting against Egypt, who built a wall on its borders to keep Palestinian refugees out?





Just a thought.
Reply:Both sides benefit from the fighting, Israel from grabbing all the land they want by force, and Hamas from the financial support of rich Arab sympathizers, so this fighting is hardly unexpected. The losers, as always, are the average civilians who will have their land taken away, get blown up/cluster bombed and of course enjoy none of the benefits of the blood money that their leaders are showered with.
Reply:Of course. They want war, to make the Israelis look bad. They fire rockets in civilian areas so when isreal retaliates, they will hit the civilian areas back. Hamas are a bunch of cowards and I dont know why Palestinians[ Not all] still support that group. Really, i want to believe in their struggle, but you dont gain respect by firing rockets into Israel.
Reply:Yes.


Israel needs to make missiles that release sleeping gas. Put a few blocks to sleep, the walk in and get the terrorist while everyone else ins enjoying a nap.


No civilians get hurt.


OK, A few might in car crashes when they fall asleep, but no building get blown up.
Reply:It is exactly what Hamas wants. They don't care about civilians...there are hardly any civilians in Gaza technically (they all wish to be combatants). Hamas will trade lives for news clips any day. They are cowards. Israel should finish this now once and for all.

How do I invite content to my video site?

I am creating a video sharing portal like "a you tube"


and would like invite organizations, businesses and colleges to upload some "initial content" on my site. The initial content I need is mainly as "filler" so I can use it as a platform to invite more people. OR if you have ideas on how I can get some filler content. Can anyone tell me how I can get that?? Uploading is absoultely FREE!!
How do I invite content to my video site?
To create a video sharing site like youtube, you have to install a flash video player on the site.





To this point, you can use moyea web player to customize a flash video web player. This flash video web player support play flash video file which supported by Adobe Flash Player, they are flv, mp4, mov, 3gp, 3g2, h.264.





It is available at http://www.flash-video-mx.com.





You can try first!
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How do i invite animals to my home in animal crossing wild world?

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How do i invite animals to my home in animal crossing wild world?
open ur gate and make sure u hav like s friend over at ur house.then they open their gate and they come into ur world
Reply:they come to your house when you have many things inside and will try to buy some of the things from you. you just have to wait.
Reply:The villagers in your town will sometimes ask if they can come and visit your house. They will want to come a few hours after they ask you. Set a time and play animal crossing then. Stay inside your house and eventually, at the time, they will enter your house. They will walk around and give you a rating on your house. They may tell you other little things as well, like gossip about other villagers. Develop a good relationship with a villager and they will probably want to visit. or expand your house heaps then they might visit.

How do you invite Warlic and/ or Galonoth in Dragon Fables?

I read about it on the FAQ and I can't figure it out and I can't find it on the internet. I know how to invite Ash, Valencia, Robina Hood, and Artix. If theres others you can invite please tell me that too.
How do you invite Warlic and/ or Galonoth in Dragon Fables?
You can get Warlic at Xan's Volcanic Fortress. You can't invite Galonoth as a guest.
Reply:Can't get either. Except I think there is one quest in a quest string where Warlic will fight with you. Where's Galanoth in DF, anyway?
Reply:i seriously do not think you can get them on your team, unless its a quest that you can use IDs. i went crazy trying to find out too, since i signed up. But now im lvl 24 and i kind of gave up on it. i dont use parties anymore anyway. its best to stick with artix and valentica for now, untill you get strong enough weapons, skills and armor to finish things off by yourself.

How can I invite members to my group?

my homepage has no provision to extend invitation to others! How do I attract new members ?
How can I invite members to my group?
To invite friends to your group,the best way is to send them an email with the URL pasted in describing your group asking them to join. ask them to forward the message to their friends.First make your site look sharp. Choose custom colors a good photo and welcoming message. Click edit beside description on your cover page then scroll down and you will find where to do all that. Send an email to all your friends and relatives with the URL pasted in explaining the group and inviting them to join and asking them to forward the message to their friends and relatives asking the same. When you set up your group put first posts on moderation, if someone causes a problem at the start with spam or nasty comments ban them then and there. Try to add HTML links to similar sites on your cover page and also a hit counter you can do a search for free ones, they help make your site interesting. As your membership grows add additional moderators and encourage everyone to offer suggestions to improve your group. It takes a long time to build a good group, and remember participation is more important than numbers. Good luck.
Reply:if you're a moderator, you may not have the privilege to invite members. you also cant send invites to people you do not know.





to attract people consider


creating a web page of the topic and add the promote code to it


add the group URL to your profiles and mail signature

What activities can a youth group in a Catholic church have to raise funds & any ideas to invite more youth?

We are a part of the World Youth Day group based in Kuwait.
What activities can a youth group in a Catholic church have to raise funds %26amp; any ideas to invite more youth?
At my parish growing up, my youth group held a silent auction and had a supper at the hall...the community, parishoners, etc. donated all kinds of items for the auction, and a local restaurant donated the food.





In turn, we donated half of the money to our local soup-kitchen that fed the homeless. so we werent' actually just trying to raise money for ourselves, but for the community, and I believe this is why more people dontated items, and bid on items.





Good luck to you and your endeavours!
Reply:Ok :according to "Non Profit Organizations the Catholic


Church would donate Foods towards Homeless Shelters


when each 1 Community being Builded %26amp;Supported by other


groups of volunteers yes you'd can help their Foundation


well seehttp://catholic.churchyouthmissionaries.... "
Reply:I don't know if these things would be good in Kuwait, but these are some of the things we used to do:


- car wash afternoons (people pay to get their car washed, in the school car park - off the roads, so not traffic danger)


- garage sales (sell unwanted second hand goods for cheap prices and donate the proceeds to the cause - or other sellers can keep their proceeds and pay a site fee and/or donation)


- sell sweets, cakes etc through a charity scheme or cake making drive


- do odd jobs about the neighbourhood (if safe and possible) and raise some money that way


- collection taken up at Mass etc.


- run a trivia quiz or talent quest night





Maybe if you have not done this yet, you could have a meeting with the Parish parents and friends and teachers and youth group members one day, and come up with some good ideas together. You could have a lunch or tea with a fun atmosphere, which might get more youth involved too and get some more good ideas (if your school is a Catholic school, that could be a good place to start) Good luck.
Reply:How about Dodgeball? that is fun and you can raise money.
Reply:This site has lots of tips on church fundraisers and youth group fundraising:





http://www.fundraiserhelp.com/church-fun...





http://www.fundraiserhelp.com/youth-grou...
Reply:u may sell goodies, cards, craft etc. u may invite youth form other churches to invite more youth.
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Is there any difference between a Gmail account from invite, and the public account?

I noticed that now you do NOT need an invite to get a Gmail account anymore. I found the link for sign ups on the Google website. I'm just curious whether you lose any features if I chose to sign up without the invite.
Is there any difference between a Gmail account from invite, and the public account?
There is no difference.





Google didn't have the capacity to accept everyone, so they made you either sign up through wireless or from a friend referral. Now that they have upped the number of accounts they are capable of handling, they have made it publicly available.
Reply:It is exactly the same.





I personally prefer mail.aim.com though.
Reply:it should be the same

In rock band is it possible to actually create a band online? or do you just invite friends whenever your on?

Also, who's band does the score save under for the leaderboards? the hosts?
In rock band is it possible to actually create a band online? or do you just invite friends whenever your on?
Unfortunately, you can't create a band online. You have to invite your friends. And I'm pretty sure it doesn't save the Band Quickplay scores to the leaderboards.
Reply:You have to start a band by inviting your friends. (If you remember, when you start a band you select the leader, who has to play.)

How and were do i get papers to invite someone from Jordan to the Usa?

I also need to know the name of the forms
How and were do i get papers to invite someone from Jordan to the Usa?
Don't.


There is coming wave of anti Immigration, legal or Illegal. Especially from anywhere near there.
Reply:Hello:





If you want to invite someone to come to visit you temporary as a visitor on a Visitor's visa, then you do NOT need to file any forms or petitions with immigration services.





The person in Jordan would have to apply for a Visitor's visa in the US Embassy or Consulate in Jordan.





Max you can do is to write them an Invitation letter (a simple letter, it does not have to be notarized).





If, however, you are asking about immigration (helping someone to move to the USA permanently), then you shall consult an immigration attorney (whether it is possible; what is your relationship; timeframes; forms).
Reply:Is called sponsorship papers.go to the INS office and collect all the set of papers required to ponsor someone.It's depends on is the immigrant meet the standards framed in a patriot act,before allowing him into USA.Go to the any immigration lawyer/INS office or your local borough head quarters all the assistance is available at gratis.
Reply:You invite the person via mail. The actual planning of the trip needs to start at his/her end......from Jordan.

How do you send a facebook mob wars invite to someone not on your friends list? ?

I've gotten invites from people I don't know without having to add them as a friend. But on the invite page, it only shows my friends. Is there another invite page somewhere??
How do you send a facebook mob wars invite to someone not on your friends list? ?
It is possible, because the same thing has happened to me a couple of times since yesterday. I was trying to figure out how it's done, and stumbled onto this question.





And the non-friends list people *are* in my party when fighting in Mob Wars. I can't figure out how they did it, though.





*EDIT*


Aha! I think I found the answer, a Firefox script: http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/3072...
Reply:Miss Dinar...I can sense that you aren't pleased about this invite script. Let me give you a little advice...it's just a game. :)





The script was awesome! Sending your friends Mobwars invites is annoying to the person receiving them.





You seem a tad uptight...chill girl! Xanex possibly? Report Abuse

Reply:Are you saying that even though they are not on your "list of friends", you still get mobwar invitations? As far as I know, this should NOT be possible as you can only invite someone to your Mob if that person IS a friend. I've always had to add a person as a friend before being able to invite him, or her, to my Mob. If you're able to get Mob War invitations by people who are NOT on your list of friends, then you should contact the developer and let him know this.
Reply:I think:





If you're an admin in a mobwar group or something, u can send invites to all people, and u can send invites to anyone through messaging them i think.





However, they won't be in your "party" excpet if they are your friends.






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Would you invite an extraterrestial to dinner?

Sorry, just felt like sticking a wild one out there.
Would you invite an extraterrestial to dinner?
HECK YA : ) those aliens really know how to party LOL I would want them to help prepare the food though I'm not sure they would like what ever i make and i wouldn't want the food quality to be a reason for them to destroy our planet. HAHAHA this was a sweet question
Reply:Absolutely, we could definitely use some excitement around here for a change...As far as dinner goes, if he's not into what I cooked...well, there's a dairy across the road..............lol.
Reply:No. I wouldnt know what to cook!lol
Reply:As long as they brought the beer, sure.
Reply:why not i've invited illegal aliens to dinner before...hehe...





besides, you can't go wrong with buffalo wings baby!!!
Reply:Why not, I think it would be interesting conversation!
Reply:Yes, provided he/she/?? provided at least one recipe!





Bert
Reply:Sure why not, I would have a good conversation, and have a lot to ask them. I also would try to get a few recipies from them, However that may be hard, as we may not have the same ingredients here on earh. It would be interesting to say the least.
Reply:would be interesting what would serve
Reply:Sure,


why not "break bread" with an outsider? lol

We should invite more Muslim Dictators to speak in universities, the public sentiment is to get toughwith Iran

Wouldn't that be funny to have those weird fanatics show how they really are. Support for the War would go through the roof.
We should invite more Muslim Dictators to speak in universities, the public sentiment is to get toughwith Iran
He was unpopular in his own country. What we as Americans really need to do is inform ourselves. We need to understand the history of the Middle East. We need to understand the politics, the culture, the nuance... you know, all that important stuff. The Bush doctrine of "don't talk to your enemies and threaten to bomb everyone" clearly is not working. Whatever happened to "speak softly and carry a big stick"?





The fact is our treatment of him is probably the best thing he has going for him. Iran is a country divided, and just like the 9/11 attack united the country behind Bush, our threats are uniting Iran behind Ahmadinejad. Our policy is counter-productive unless our goal is to empower hard-liners in Iran.





We can *never* stop terrorism with more war, and our efforts in the Middle East are likely to be viewed as terrorism to them, prompting more extremism against us. How much blood and treasure will we use in the Middle East when we can't get things done at home, when our economy is far from stable, and when other countries are emerging as significant threats to us in the conventional-war sort of way?
Reply:I don't know an awful lot of left wing wackos at that University applauded. I am beginning to believe that liberalism is a mental disorder.
Reply:When we get hillarycare and real doctors give up, we'll have to import those bomb making doctors from the ME. Won't that be special.
Reply:It didn't seem to work the last time. It played very much in Iran's favor in their own controlled media.
Reply:No, secular religious fanaticism does not need a platform here. We know that they are fundamentalist fanatics already.
Reply:I'm gauging you are American. your country has already effed up two countries this decade. which breaks out of the routine of one invasion per decade established since Korea.


what happened to making sure your own backyard is clean before playing in someone elses.
Reply:you seem weird to them....funny how that works?

A couple under seikatsu hogo in japan can invite a relatives from philippines? what are the requirements?

me and my japanese husband is under a case of seikatsu hogo,he is not paying tax anymore..but i want to invite my daughter in philippines together along with my mom to come here..what are the requirements needed? procedures?will they grant a visa if possible? urgent please..thanks in advance!
A couple under seikatsu hogo in japan can invite a relatives from philippines? what are the requirements?
here are sites that will answer the questions::::





www.us.emb-japan.go.jp/english/html/tr...


www.us.emb-japan.go.jp/ -


japan.visahq.com/


projectvisa.com/countryinfo.asp?countr...


www.learn4good.com/travel/japan_visa.h...

Will Obama invite Jesse Jackson to spend the night in the White House?

Just wondering after that comment about wanting to cut Obam's nads off.
Will Obama invite Jesse Jackson to spend the night in the White House?
They are best buds so I'm sure he will.









Reply:nope
Reply:Maybe but Obama would be in the White House Dog House. A fitting place don't you think. I wonder if there will be enough room for Jessie, ACORN, Ayers, the Fannie Mae executives all his terrorist friends in the ME and the black panthers in that dog house.





President McCain has already won.
Reply:No, he'll be too busy with Ayers, Jeremiah Wright, heads of Fannie Mae/Freddie Mac, and Farakan.
Reply:paige are you aware of the plans of GOD for the jews do you really think mccain loves the jews or sarah palin is anymore a christian than the devil .i am a christian just like jesus evetyone has a plan for their life certian things must come to pass in order for the jews to posses their land again this is why bush is so punished it GOD thats been revealing him it is not the democrats thats been stealing their oil andmany other things from the jews it is both not noe or the other their are etheopian jews and theirs the regular jews both been enslaves ran out taken from their land now its this day that GOD will move upon the earth with venges blacks will get restatution and the jews shall poses their land again oboma may be that vessel you see you have to have the mind of GOD to understand.
Reply:That was a planned statement.
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If you invite a ex over to your house after a year, what can you to do to make it less awkward?

Re-post: I posted this earlier and only got 2 answers.





I am inviting a ex over that I have not saw in a year. He wants to visit but I am far more boring than I used to be. If you invite a ex over to your house after a year, what can you to do to make it less awkward? Any suggestions on what to do, that way it will be more fun? Thanks!





Ps. I am almost 17, so nothing dirty.
If you invite a ex over to your house after a year, what can you to do to make it less awkward?
I suggest you go somewhere instead. Invite him to lunch (unless you want to date him again then invite him to dinner). I find that I always run out of things to say at my house if I'm with someone I haven't talked to in a while. I just get bored and start to act like I'm at home without a guest. Go somewhere and do something that involves activity if you feel you've gotten more "boring". which I highly doubt! I'm sure you've experienced new things to make you more of an interesting person! Talk about it!
Reply:if u are inviting an ex over u should just be yourself and maybe you guys could go somewhere with some other friends because then it would be less akward and you guys could maybe rent a movie if u dont wanna go out some where its always fun to play with a nintendo wii if u or a friend have one !!! ; ]





thanks alot and i hope u really take my advise!!!!
Reply:Uhmm.


Video games (the racing kind) are always a good ice-breaker. :)


Card games/Board games are good too~
Reply:watch movies, video games, computer, show each other funny youtube, eat ice cream idn lol random stuff gl!
Reply:PLAY UNO
Reply:just be yourself around him

The Sims Life Stories question: How do I invite someone from my or their house to a community lot?

I need to invite Mickey to the gym, and i need to invite the Barista in Vince's neighborhood out to somewhere else. How do i invite?
The Sims Life Stories question: How do I invite someone from my or their house to a community lot?
You can call them on the phone, and invite them out to where ever you need.





If they have a phone, some characters don't, and you have to wait till they decide to see you again.

Sunday, May 23, 2010

Should I invite my first wife and her family to my brother's memorial service?

I was married to my first wife for 10 years, divorced in 1992. She remarried immediately and i remarried in 2001. I was close to the family, as was my brother. She divorced me and married my brother's roommate. I am over that, and it seems weird not to at least inform them of his death, and invite them.
Should I invite my first wife and her family to my brother's memorial service?
If she was friends with your family and attends, i do not see a problem. I am sorry about your brother.
Reply:Of course you should
Reply:You should let her know that he passed away and that there will be a memorial service. Give her the info for it so they can come if they want. There is nothing wrong with that.
Reply:You know I just don't know if I would tell me ex or not. I had a cousin he knew well pass away and he knew and he never showed up. But your ex may be diffrent and really care about people.
Reply:Inform them of the death. Let them know of the memorial if they can attend. If not, that is okay too.





Sorry for your loss.
Reply:I'm sorry about your loss. It is a very decent thing to inform your ex wife about your brother's memorial service. It is not about the two of you, but about honoring your brother. I hope you ex wife will attend.
Reply:Yes you should invite her, that's the right thing to do. Sorry about your brother.
Reply:She would be coming out of respect for your family, which she was once a part of.





You should invite them.
Reply:She won't be coming for you but out of respect for your brother's memory. There's nothing wrong with her being notified of his passing. She will make the decision to attend or not.

Should I invite my boyfriend to Christmas dinner with me?

My boyfriend told me when we first started talking that he doesn't really celebrate Christmas because he usually doesn't have anyone to celebrate it with. Well my family always has a little get together every year %26amp; we have dinner %26amp; exchange gifts %26amp; everything. %26amp; since I know he's probably going to be at home alone for Christmas I was kind of wanting to invite him to come with me so we could spend Christmas together. Should I?
Should I invite my boyfriend to Christmas dinner with me?
hell yes invite him over! You'd be doing him a big favor by the sounds of it. I'm kind of like this guy, and if my girlfriend invited me over I'd sure as hell be most appreciative.





So invite him.
Reply:Yes. Totally invite him. But make sure he knows it's optional. He doenst have to go. Make sure he is comfortable, because my boyfriend isnt all that comfortable with me extended family and weve been together for three years. If he gets uncomfortable, ask him to take a walk with you or something. Overall, make sure he has a good time [:
Reply:Of course, nobody likes to be alone.
Reply:If you feel that it is the right thing to do and he will enjoy it then go for it!
Reply:yeah, it sounds like he wants to celebrate xmas but he just never has anyone to celebrate it. =]
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How i invite my sister and her five year old son to toronto canada for 2 months from karachi pakistan?

how i invite my sister and her five year old son to toronto canada for 2 months from karachi pakistan?
How i invite my sister and her five year old son to toronto canada for 2 months from karachi pakistan?
they have to apply for a visitors visa, which means they are just coming for vacation and can stay up to 6 months but will have to return back to pakistan within 6 months. Alot of people get denied visas, but you can try. You have to fill out an application and send money to the Canadian Embassy.
Reply:U have to go on the internat and look up immgration or something like that and then it wil say like a visa to come to the us then u click on it and this form will pop up u have to fill it out and then it will send it to where they live and that is the invitation and it cost about $248 i am not lying either
Reply:"Hey Sis, do you and Junior wanna come and visit me for a couple of months?"





Simple enough.

What does an American have to do to invite a Kenyan friend into United States?

This Kenyan friend is part of a Non-Government organisation, he wants to come to U.S. to find charitable organisations, etc. I heard I have to send a letter of invite...but what is the procedure
What does an American have to do to invite a Kenyan friend into United States?
chekc the american consulate website

How do you delete an invitation if the invite is unavailable?

It appears the person I invited closed their account. There is no box to the left of the "invite is unavailable" to remove it. Help!
How do you delete an invitation if the invite is unavailable?
You go to the mail box page click on the outstanding invitations and delete it there. But if you are talking about it from there then Wait until you get some more messages to delete and a box may show up then, It did for me. And send out another invite and l am sure you can delete after you have been excepted. And this worked for me

Do you invite your therapist to your wedding?

My girlfriend and I have been doing couples counseling and now are engaged. Do we invite our therapist to our wedding?
Do you invite your therapist to your wedding?
If the therapist is a personal friend or relative who you would be inviting anyway then go for it. Otherwise it's not required or expected to do so.
Reply:we invited ours - but she graciously 'couldn't come' and sent a card and gift instead. You can invite him or her, but I doubt if he/she will come due to the confidential nature of your work. I think it's nice to invite the therapist since they were so helpful in getting you guys to this point! good luck...
Reply:You have no obligation to, and I'ms ure that the therapist is not expecting you two. However if you are both fully comfortable with the idea of your therapist being there then by all means do it.
Reply:No. Your relationship with your councilor is business. You invite relatives and members of your social and church circles, but not your business and professional acquaintances. To invite them would be seen as fishing for gifts.
Reply:She most likely wont come.


However an invitation would be a nice gesture.
Reply:not a bad idea. this is the person you can always talk to, who is there for you two, who helps you with problems, i mean yeah you are playing them but i don't think it's a bad idea
Reply:nahhh..invite the guy who gave you the advice in the decision on whether to invite the therapist instead( that would be me) :)
Reply:yess of coursee.


ur therapist should be one of the first ppl u should consider other than family..


he/she has a lot to do with ur relationship.
Reply:No, I doubt he expects to be invited unless he is also a personal friend.
Reply:She probably won't come, but perhaps will give you a stack of business cards to keep somewhere subtle :)
Reply:no, like he would want to come anyways dude...
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Who would invite Charles R to their home in the UK?

why and how so?





what would you be doing with him and why?





Thanks for your answers!
Who would invite Charles R to their home in the UK?
not me


i here he his one for the lady`s,,
Reply:Absolutely no way would I invite him anywhere near my home, hes pure evil and a stalker.

Does anyone know where I can get a invite to download Joost?

I would like to download Joost but it says you need a invite any suggestions?
Does anyone know where I can get a invite to download Joost?
I have Joost.


Need your email address.





Still need your email address for invite.

Should we invite some Taliban to come over and flog some bankers?

I hate the Taliban, but I gotta admit they would be good at flogging bankers.





I would start with "Sir" Fred Goodwin. I can't believe the Queen was stupid enough to give this punk a knighthood, if she has any credibility, she should strip it straight away.
Should we invite some Taliban to come over and flog some bankers?
Just strip them of all their assets, thats the best way to get them, just make them poor.
Reply:There's got to be a dirty joke in there somewhere.


"Honey, where's Junior?"


"He's locked in the bathroom again; flogging the banker...."


What? Banker rhymes with wanker. I'm just sayin'.





Seriously, why let the Taliban into our country? I would be more in favor of ductaping a bunch of bankers into cargo containers and shipping therm all over to Afghanistan for the Taliban to flog at their leisure.
Reply:We don't need the Taliban - i know a lot of newly unemployed people round the York area who would just love to have a few minutes with the fat cats, Brown, Blair, Harmann, Prescott, Balls and the rest of the cretinous crew who have all but destroyed our country! No i didn't forget the cadaverous traitor Mandelson - the Taliban can have him.
Reply:Idea for Reality TV series: Failed bankers get marooned in Helmand Province with just a binbag full of cash and a banana. Can they bribe the local warlord into giving them freedom or will they end up losing their heads?
Reply:We have enough bankers without them flogging us any more.
Reply:The Taliban flogging bankers? Who on earth to and how much would they get?
Reply:let's start with some congressmen!

If i invite people to a holiday party that are over 18 but under 21, and they drink before they come?

If I or a frined invite people to a holiday party at my house that are over 18 but under 21, and they drink before they come or bring their own drink am I legally responsible for them and should I ask them to leave or would I be really legally responsible as long as I do not serve the drinks to them?





It is not the same as drinks to a minor is it? I mean so someone under 21 is still a "minor"?
If i invite people to a holiday party that are over 18 but under 21, and they drink before they come?
In most states, whether the minor consumes prior to your party, at your party or is served at your party, you are allowing him/her to consume alcohol, which makes you responsible even liable should they get into a car after the party and get into a fatal accident. YOU get sued by the people involved in the accident. What's more is that he could sue you, his good buddy and friend, for allowing him to consume alcohol then drive. If you want to take on that much responsibility, it's your neck.





Advise checking with the laws in your state and your home owner's or rental insurance coverage. Might be a good thing for you to know if they'll cover such an irresponsible act.
Reply:if they are over 18 they are not your responsibility if they bring their own drink. Your responsibility legally and socially will be the following:1) if they become unrully while a party is going on inside your house;2) if the noise coming from your house disturbs the neighborhood, then you are liable;3) if accidents happens while they are inside your house because of being drunk, you are liable.


So if I were you don't bring them inside your house. Just invite them to a bar of a nightclub. With that you will be safe.
Reply:Yes, you will be held responsible since they are at your premises. Very expensive risk.
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On animal crossing wild world when i invite friends at the palace place the dog said i need to fill out a form?

how do I fill out the form that the dog tells you to fill out when i want to invite friends/guests please reply someone!! I really need help!
On animal crossing wild world when i invite friends at the palace place the dog said i need to fill out a form?
To open your gates talk to Copper (the dog on the right) and choose "Invite Guests" when he prompts you. Make sure your WiFi connection is setup properly and follow the onscreen instructions, Soon you'll be able to open your gates and do other things. Make sure you exchange friend codes with other people and register each other in your friend roster.


If you need more help go to this site


(the WiFi help is the first link):


http://strategywiki.org/wiki/Animal_Cros...


http://strategywiki.org/wiki/Animal_Cros...





And if you don't have friend codes yet, here a site where you can meet people and exchange friend codes:


http://www.animalcrossingcommunity.com/





I hope this helps!

How to write a invitation letter to invite my girl friend to UK from UK embassy?

You can not write it yourself, my dear you need some professional assistance for this. You should go to court complex in your area select some government approved professional/advocate to write a sponsorship/invitation letter for you. Take along your residence proof salary certificate/slip, bank account details and prepare your papers and get them attested at the government approved notary/advocate.


After completing all the formalities make one photocopy of the same, send original one to the person you want to invite and let that person apply for the visa on the basis of this document, keep photocopy with you as a proof.


You just can not write a letter and go to Embassy to invite a person, you have to follow the proper procedure.
How to write a invitation letter to invite my girl friend to UK from UK embassy?
you write the letter yourself! Its not that hard. Just make sure in the letter mention the fact that you will take care of all her expenses while she is in the UK and that you will be her sponsor. Give the address of where she will be staying at and make sure when she flies in, she uses the same address on the form that's given to her on the plane to complete before landing. This form is then handed to the immigration officer and then the immigration officer will ask her a bunch of easy questions, unless she looks suspicious. Then they'll try to trick you up...lol. I love London! Alot of my family lives there and I frequent there alot. She'll love it....cheers! =)

Proper way to RSVP to a wedding invite when unable to attend?

I recently was invited to a wedding, but am not able to attend. The invite included an RSVP card, but the card does not allow me a "choice" of saying that I am unable to attend.





Here is an excerpt from the card...





"Please reply by [Date]





Name_______________________________


Number of persons_____"





Maybe I'm just overly sensitive, but it would seem tacky to write "0" in the number of persons line.





How is the best way to RSVP in this instance? Should I bother sending back the RSVP card?
Proper way to RSVP to a wedding invite when unable to attend?
On the card it self right your name and say UNABLE to attend. Leave the number of persons blank....Or add a line and say UNABLE to attend...





It is odd that there is no line to check unable to attend....





Good Luck
Reply:Actually, you have the answer yourself, and it is not tacky. Write "0" in the number of person line and your name in the name line. And yes, ALWAYS send back your rsvp card whether you can attend or not. Someone is in charge of comparing the invite list to the RSVP list and tracking the number of people that will be attending and who has and hasn't responded. Then they have to track down the non-responders and it really is a pain.
Reply:EDIT the reply by including your name and adding "Ongoing wishes for the new couple's happiness in my absence."
Reply:I think your instinct is correct and it wouldn't be in the best taste to insert a zero on the number of persons line.





I think it would be better to send a brief letter written in the third person, e.g. "SoCal Dude thanks Mr and Mrs G Brown for their kind invitation to the wedding of their daughter Zoe to Mr Anthony White on Saturday 27 June 2009 but regrets he is unable to attend due to a previous engagement."





(This is assuming the wording on the invitation card is in the third person?)

Why can't yahoo give us a invite to conference bloke in profiles?

Jurks are using conference invites to boot now even with the new 9 by the 3rd invite your booted.
Why can't yahoo give us a invite to conference bloke in profiles?
That's why I don't chat anymore :)
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Birthday invite ideas for a three year old?

My little bro is turning three and i need a quick and easy invite to make my self.He is having a truck party,with like bulldozers and things.Please help!
Birthday invite ideas for a three year old?
Use a stencil or draw a truck out on the invitation. Underneath that put "Zoom on over to our house to celebrate ________'s birthday." or something like that.
Reply:if your good at drawing draw the if not print them off the computer
Reply:But those little tonka trucks (you can probably get a bag cheaply at your dollar store or somewhere like that) and write the date, time, place on the tray of the truck, and your brothers name on the side in vivid marker. Or on a piece of paper, and roll it up in the truck window.
Reply:you can go to walmart quick cheap and easy take a picture of him and get a border on it they have truck themes and have the invite wrote on it there and print as many as u need. my cousin did that for her son and they are so cute and a lot cheaper than buying invites or things to make them if u need a pic of it u can contact me to see what they look like i would be happy to show you
Reply:draw something like a birthday hat, a cake, a balloon, and number 3, a present something like that and write on the back the information about the party and put it in an envelope
Reply:i found this website for you





http://www.print-birthday-invitations.co...





enjoy!

Will Fox News make a last minute invite to Dr Ron Paul? Are they only pretending to exclude him for publicity?

This is regarding televised Fox News presidential candidate forum on Jan. 6


If this is not a publicity stunt and he is actually excluded will you be livid or will I be the only livid one?
Will Fox News make a last minute invite to Dr Ron Paul? Are they only pretending to exclude him for publicity?
Ron is excluded and it's a done deal. However, he can hold his own townhall meeting on Jan. 6, and answer many of the same Q's asked during the debate.

Why does my friend only want to chill with me alone? He does EVER invite me to chill with his friends?

He says he likes me. He KNOWS I have NO interest.


And we never do anything with each other, not even hug, so it's not for sexual reasons.


Im hurt he never invites me to go bowling, fishing, or plain hanging out with his friends.
Why does my friend only want to chill with me alone? He does EVER invite me to chill with his friends?
when someone finds a good friend they sometimes are afraid of losing that friend to outside influences, or he could be ashamed of you, and think he could do better than you. either way confront him and if he is a good friend to you he will change his behavior to spare your feelings. one love//
Reply:Maybe he thinks that his friends might like you and you might like them back. And he just doesn't want to risk that/ But maybe you should just let him know you want to go bowling or something. Tell him to get together some of his friends and you will get together some of yours, and meet up. That way he might not be so uncomfortable with the idea of it.
Reply:He probably just doesn't think you and his friends are similar enough, or he might not have thought of it at all. Let him know that you'd be interested to meet them (not all at once! that's usually a bad idea). Maybe you could arrange something and invite him and one or two of his friends to go. But most importantly, don't get jealous. Everyone does things with their friends that leaves someone else out. That's normal. Although, if it happens more often than not, it's probably time to call him on it.
Reply:Ever tell him that you would like to try bowling?

I have an average deck & wanted to invite friends over for a party. How do I decorate it to be more welcoming?

It's always funny to draw a little face on it and make it a hat. Never gets old!!
I have an average deck %26amp; wanted to invite friends over for a party. How do I decorate it to be more welcoming?
I suppose that depends on what kind of party it is...
Reply:Chairs, little tables, some fun music, even cute little decorations on the tables, like little candles or little tiki umbrellas or something like that. Having a few little dishes out also sets up a great mood, like chips/salsa, crackers and cheese, etc.
Reply:If it were me.......I would decide on a theme. Sports, Cowboy, Luau, honestly that is where I would start. Potted plants or flowers, (in the same color for continuity) and table decorations, tablecloths, or a table runner and a centerpiece (which could be a potted plant, but not too large no more than a 6"pot size) I would also, do a buffet style, snack and appetizer area, for an informal less work type of party. The drinks in a large iced tub always works. "Fairy Lights" for sure all over, adds so much mood to any deck or patio. If you can access the underneath of your deck.....try stringing some of the white fairy lights under there too....Helps the drunks see where they should be going.....LOL Have a Plastic lined trash can near the food table so those folks know where to put the trash....If you recycle....use more than one container, with cute signs posted...(Can do those on the computer) Plan ahead and do the Pre-preparation in all the areas and this will insure your guests will have an enjoyable time and you can enjoy your party yourself. Even extra toilet paper, extra paper towel, all that kind of stuff that is needed.....just write a plan, and stick to the plan.......get ideas from this site too....


http://www.partyamericastore.com/
Reply:One way is to install solar lawn lights around the deck! Add a few strings of Christmas lights throughout the hedges and plants around the yard, with some that flicker.
Reply:I don't know how to anwser your question but I LOVE your picture of Obi One He is SO cute!!


Ewan McGregor play Obi One and is so awsome! Did you know that he sings!! :)
Reply:Put a large artificial tree in one corner..string twinkle lights either in it or around the trunk of it..at the bottom of the steps going up to the deck put a large tub of beer, bottled water and pop with ice...prop a sign in it saying " Help Yourself"...follow a color scheme so everything doesn't look "hodge podge"..up to three colors, intertwined...





table clothes ( serving or eating, whichever),,,huge centerpiece..Just branches in a flowerpot works..get height to it..not width.





have clusters of chairs..like three to six together...not all in a circle..scattered ( they will move them where they want them)





soft music in the background..soft enough so people can hear one another...





go from here..
Reply:I suggest that you deck it out. Try placing several antique hunting decoys around the perimeter. Mallards are a nice touch. If that doesn't do the trick, deck the halls. In order to accomplish this, you will need to knock down several interior walls of your home. It will severely decrease the value of your place, but who cares? It's a party.
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Does anyone have an extra Waffles invite?

I have about 300 gigs of non-transcoded albums I would love to share. Does anyone have an invite to send my way?
Does anyone have an extra Waffles invite?
Just join Usenet instead. No ratios, no uploading, just 100% download excitement. Private trackers are nice, but too much of a hassle IMO.





www.giganews.com has the best deal going. 20 connections, SSL, and unlimited downloads.





I've been trying to get into Waffles and What.CD forever and it ain't happened yet so good luck on that one.

How do i make an auto-invite program?

I have Microsoft visual basic and i would like to make an auto invite program for an imob game for the ipod touch/iphone. How would i make this using this or any other free program.
How do i make an auto-invite program?
If you are trying to make a program to make a game do somethign fro you, its very complicated and visual basic is no where enough to amke it happen. And when you take it of the PC and to an iphone, things get even more complicated. I would say that if the software doesnt provide you with anyway to do what you want, you probably are best of not trying to find out how to do it with something elce.

Which three historical figures would you invite to a dinner party to dicuss a modern global issue?

they can be anybody from anytime in history but they will be discussing a MODERN global issue. any ideas on what they should be discussing as well?
Which three historical figures would you invite to a dinner party to dicuss a modern global issue?
Martin Luther King Jr.


Abraham Lincoln


Theodore Roosevelt
Reply:Hitler


Jonas Brothers


hirohito

What do you write on a wedding invite when you've sent an evening invite but now want to invite for whole day?

We wanted to invite everyone from the very beginning but we thought we had too many.....now a few people have had to decline and I'd love to have those who we thought may only be able to make the evening reception. Don't want to offend anyone as its the last thing in the world we want to do - any thoughts on wording would be so grateful!
What do you write on a wedding invite when you've sent an evening invite but now want to invite for whole day?
I think the best thing- is sure you want to allow the others to come- but somehow someway they will find out that they were "backup guests". Just to save hard feelings, %26amp; family feuding don't even mention it. and Just see them when you said you will see them.





Oh, and BTW- to the people above me- some places don't have enough seating for the ceremony- so they invite the closest people to their family and then the others go to the reception. Use common sense people.





I hope you have a wonderful and long happy marriage. Good Luck!
Reply:my friend was in the same situation. tbh i wouldnt send another invite. soemthing like this is best asked over the phone.


dont listen to D4...shes prob american. in the uk alot of ppl just invite family and close friends to the cermony and everyone else to the reception. or like you can only afford the set meals for so many ppl and then put on a buffet for the evening guests.
Reply:So let me clarify: you invited some people for the evening only.


Some people dropped out and you now have space.


You want to invite the evening-only people to the whole day.





Is that it?





Just send them an invitation saying "We would be honoured and delighted for you to join us during the ceremony at bla time" something among those lines!
Reply:Just send out an additional invitation that says something like "Please join the bride and groom for lunch/cake/cocktails/whatever at 4 PM, immediately following the ceremony" or whatever it is you're inviting them to do. Don't mention that they are the second tier guest list - make it sound like it's just a sweet thing you thought of just now.
Reply:what are you talking about? you excluded people from your ceremony and invited them to the reception only? I don't understand why you would do that, since seating at the ceremony is usually free and you pay for each plate at the reception.
Reply:As a guest, I would be offended.





I truly don't understand this concept of inviting people to part of your wedding and not the whole thing. That's rude.
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Would it be rude to send a flyer to daughters class after birthday invite already sent?

I sent out invitations to my 4 yr old daughter's birthday 2 weeks ago and it is this sat. the 15th, and so far only one parent has said yes and one no. So would it be rude to send a flyer out just asking for a call so i can get a head count. because it is a bowling party and already have put deposit down? any one's help is appreciated.
Would it be rude to send a flyer to daughters class after birthday invite already sent?
I would send the flyer. People forget, misplace the invitation, wait until the last minute to RSVP. It's not rude, especially since it is something like bowling where a head count is necessary. I have received and sent out similar flyers, I never felt it was rude to receive them, and I never had any negative feedback from sending them myself. Send it.





Good Luck and enjoy the party!
Reply:i don't think its rude! i would do the same thing! be persistant, your spending the $$, so you have the right.
Reply:Please don't do that even if all the class has been invited. The invitations should have included an RSVP.
Reply:I don't think it would be bad at all it would probably be appreciated! I never commit to anything 2 weeks in advance! But maybe if you put a 'best time to call' on the flyer the parents will not be so backward about calling you to RSVP
Reply:first of all, you trusted the post office way too much.... you might try just talking to the other parents when you pick your kid up. on the other hand, they might resent that you gave them so little notice, plus what 4 yr olds bowl?
Reply:I think you'd better pick up the phone and make the calls yourself. If they're not responding to an invi, odds are that the flyer won't get you the good final count you need, either.
Reply:I assume at the age of 4 that this is pre-school or daycare? I would not send a flier, it's tacky.





I actually have a child in daycare, full day and we have received two b-day invitations, one was bowling, I was annoyed when I got it to be honest with you. This age I think is too yong to be inviting the entire class unless you know the parents.





If you had an RSVP then you have to hope either people show up and if not you have a lot of cake and lane time. Don't send a flier, you might ask ssome parents when you see them but tha't it. Next time stick to the kids you and your family know...not everyone until at least 1st Grade.
Reply:Was everyone in the class invited? if so, it's probably fine to send out a flyer. if not, no don't do it.


I have called parents in the past and asked them if junior will be coming. I don't think it's rude at all----most people understand.
Reply:well did you send invitations online or physical invitations? i mean if its physical then i wouldnt expect replies back but i mean i dont know what you could do in this situation? i mean should you call them? i mean if you know the parents well enough you should call. but if these invitations were online then you should send reminders. For example i have a baby shower to go to this sat. they sent us evites and i never replied to it even though i am going and they sent everyone a reminder evite to make sure they have answered with a yes, no, or maybe... so that reminded me and i finally answered.
Reply:Yes it would be embarasing next year when you send out invites put on there R.S.V.P.


and when you get the response back then you'll know
Reply:no would be fine people may have forgotten and would appreciate it, just be polite about it and dont sound angry that no1 has got back to you.
Reply:As a little memo, yes. It would not be rude at all. Tell you daughter to go to school and hand out the flyers and tell them to ask if they can come to her party. It would be completly acceptable.
Reply:This happens all the time - you send out invites and people dont reply and then just turn up, or say yes and not turn up or they claim not have received them! sometimes they can go astray especially at that age, so go ahead and send a gentle reminder, I have done it before! if you collect your daughter from school, approach parents direct and embarrass them by saying "by the way are you coming to the party?"
Reply:Talk to all of the parents in ure kids class to get anideaif they 're coming , and if that doesnt work ,CALL THEM!


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