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Sunday, May 23, 2010

Why does my friend only want to chill with me alone? He does EVER invite me to chill with his friends?

He says he likes me. He KNOWS I have NO interest.


And we never do anything with each other, not even hug, so it's not for sexual reasons.


Im hurt he never invites me to go bowling, fishing, or plain hanging out with his friends.
Why does my friend only want to chill with me alone? He does EVER invite me to chill with his friends?
when someone finds a good friend they sometimes are afraid of losing that friend to outside influences, or he could be ashamed of you, and think he could do better than you. either way confront him and if he is a good friend to you he will change his behavior to spare your feelings. one love//
Reply:Maybe he thinks that his friends might like you and you might like them back. And he just doesn't want to risk that/ But maybe you should just let him know you want to go bowling or something. Tell him to get together some of his friends and you will get together some of yours, and meet up. That way he might not be so uncomfortable with the idea of it.
Reply:He probably just doesn't think you and his friends are similar enough, or he might not have thought of it at all. Let him know that you'd be interested to meet them (not all at once! that's usually a bad idea). Maybe you could arrange something and invite him and one or two of his friends to go. But most importantly, don't get jealous. Everyone does things with their friends that leaves someone else out. That's normal. Although, if it happens more often than not, it's probably time to call him on it.
Reply:Ever tell him that you would like to try bowling?

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