Is it okay to attend a wedding ceremony without a 'formal' invite?

I didn't receive a written invite, but was asked by the bride if i would be attending the ceremony two days before hand. Am i expected to go?
Is it okay to attend a wedding ceremony without a 'formal' invite?
Anyone can go to the ceremony, especially if its a church wedding, but u probably arent invited to the after party. If they cant be bothered giving u a formal written invite, i wouldnt bother with them. Maybe just send a card and best wishes. Afterall, who would want to go to a wedding just for a 20-30 min ceremony , and not get any food or drink at reception?
Reply:Sounds like she didn't invite you to the reception for whatever reason - maybe the numbers are limited - but she would like you to attend the church, or wherever, to share her big moment.


Certainly attend the ceremony. If you feel inclined, take her a satin horseshoe or confetti, but ceremony only guests are not obliged to give a present.



Reply:You aren't expected to attend, but you can. With my church, they often put an invitation in the church bulletin inviting the church members. They need to RSVP if they are attending, but it's not a formal invite.





They way you're asking "Am I expected to go?" makes me think you don't really want to. If that's the case, don't. You're not required to attend.
Reply:I would say since she's asked you, you have been invited. The Bride is the ultimate in the final say in a wedding! As far as expected, I would say that depends on your plans and what you'd have to rearrange to go. With only two days notice, it might not be possible for you to attend. Weigh your priorities and let her know ASAP whether or not she'll need to put out an extra place setting.
Reply:Certainly you would be invited. I also think you would be included at the reception despite the other answers. If you have any questions, then I would ask the Bride. If you do not want to go, let the Bride know you cannot attend.
Reply:If there is a religious or civil ceremony its ok to attend but perhaps you should not attend the wedding breakfast. There may not even be a seat for you.
Reply:Yes you may attend the ceremony but not the reception.
Reply:you can since she asked you I would not go. i would have expected a formal invitation
Reply:Yes, you can go to the ceremony...might be awkward though.
Reply:The bride asked you to go. Do you want to go, or don't you?
Reply:Yes.