my ex-hubby recently said that he would like to bring our children for holiday and ask me to join them for the holiday. i was suprised to hear this from him personnal. May i know as a man, why is he doing this.
What is his intention! he invite his ex-wife to vacation with their children?
i dono wat actually happened in ur marriage. tot d kids were with u. u abandoned d kids or he won custody of d kids? or u did him wrong???
hmm...2 conclusions:
1. d kids miss mummy
2. ur ex miss u and he still got feelings for u and vice versa. u definitely still have feelings for him if not u wont have to give a damn wat his gf feel.
pull urself up and ask him wat u wan to know rather den going round d bush guessing cos u know best wat really happened to ur marriage and wat u wan now.
if there is another opportunity, give love another chance whoever was wrong or wat ever happened. it was d past and HISTORY. DONT let it go dis time.
good luck and take care...
p/s: u added me or blocked me. LOL
Reply:He loves family.
Reply:ask him, also he may want everyone together for the holiday.
Reply:Perhaps her wants a little normalcy for his children. Just because you are divorced, doesn't mean your children should have to suffer. Some divorced families do have a friendship and can do things together with the kids. it's rare but it happens.
Reply:i am not sure whether he is trying to be funny with you, just be careful, good luck.
Reply:My ex husband didnt want anything to do with me when we broke up, just our son. He was overly nasty to me. Then at the end of last year he started to send me text messages asking what we were doing for dinner, and if we would to get dinner together. Me, our son and him. I was taken aback and confused, but agreed. It was out of character. I was right to be suspicious because he was now overly nice to me when we all met up, and when our son fell asleep he made moves on me to have sex. This turned into a very bad cycle where he kept trying to touch me and have sex with me when he would come to see our little boy. He would even touch me sexually in front of our son and i would have to say, Our Son is there!!! I dont know what was wrong with me, but i could not say No for a long time. When he made a move I would just stand there and freeze. I had to talk to family and friends and practice saying No. Eventually he stopped, but I only think it did because he got a new girlfriend. It was the beginning of a messy yucky cycle for me and i regret not having respect for myself and my son to say No. I am glad it is over now.
Reply:If you have children with him, then it might strictly be for the children's benifit. Make sure to tell him that you do NOT want any hanky panky to go around though, and to NOT put any moves on you
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